The mountain of change
Should you be the life of the party, normally you keep to yourself, you hide on the sidelines, yet you expect yourself to flourish in the spotlight to become the center of attention, why do you hold yourself to such a high standard?
Let’s say i told you to climb to the top of mount everest, would you?
No, you wouldn’t even try because my expectations are unreasonably high, but what if i asked you to walk to your kitchen, would you maybe because my expectations are realistic, they’re doable, i’m not expecting something impossible or out of character socializing works.
The same way to stop being awkward, make small manageable changes, don’t try to climb a mountain, set realistic goals and you just might follow through.