Do you want to become irresistible to any woman you desire? Do you wish to be equally attractive as a high-value man? Believe it or not, being attractive can gather a good audience, but being irresistibly attractive does much more than that. To become that type of persona, you need an insane amount of confidence. So, how do you achieve that? Once you understand the secret sauce to gain confidence, you can attract even high-class women. There is a very weird psychology behind it. Confidence is not confined to being good-looking. Even an average-looking guy can attract women but with confidence. In this article, we will go over five weird confident secrets that make you attractive as hell.
#1. Be Unapologetic and Shameless
While most people will tell you that being apologetic for every little thing and being reserved with your girl will get you her respect, well, it’s hella right. It will get you respect in some ways, but you will lose your charm in the end. When you are in a relationship with a girl, you need to understand a few things about her. Does she like confident men with sassy personalities? If she does, you might consider rethinking your behavior in her presence. When she is that type of girl, she will want you to be more extroverted and more open-minded about your feelings and expressing opinions.
Let’s say you too went on a date for the first time. You took her to an expensive restaurant, bought her favorite dish, opened the door for her, and when the time was about to say goodbye, you literally said goodbyes without thinking one step ahead, which was using your confidence to kiss her on the cheek to let her know that you are into her, or even holding her hand and saying some words of appreciation. Most men think she will get offended or despise such behavior in the first meeting, but believe she wants you to be confident enough to express your feelings, to tell her you are into her. Now, the same goes for being apologetic for everything little thing, even if it is not your mistake. Saying that you go completely unapologetic, but you need to be confident enough not to apologize just because you are afraid she will leave you. This is the only way to attract her in her subconscious mind.
#2. Control the Energy
Women are attracted to a guy who can control the energy and can lead the vibe, creating an enjoyable atmosphere for them to feel comfortable enough in your space. Most men often shy away from the fact they would make drama while trying to lead the vibe. Understand that your high self-confidence in controlling the energy flow in different settings will make you stand out when you are with a girl. Instead of waiting for her to initiate the conversation, take charge and start the conversation. Doing so will create an environment where she feels comfortable around you, and instead of waiting for her to get off the mobile and decide what to do and not be the one to suggest activities. While most men don’t understand this, girls crave men who are confident enough to lead the vibe and make decisions because girls don’t want to do the hard part, and that’s where you increase your aura of attraction.
#3. Let Go of Expectations
If you want to attract women in a way that 99% of men can’t, you must let go of your expectations. When you are fixated on the outcomes, you are not fully present at the moment. What happens is when you are not with her at the moment, she kinda senses that in you. When you are all about the outcomes, you not only give yourself tension and anxiety but also turn her off. This results in needy behavior while
interacting with her, and when she senses the desperation in you, she will run in the opposite direction. Now, this all is connected with having massive confidence, a confidence that doesn’t let you get distracted from the present, to get lost in despair and desperation. When you let go of your expectations, you become active. You are not obsessed with what the results might be or how you want them to be. You are only focused on the interaction itself, which will lead to better thinking, ease, and confidence. And when you are at ease, you exude confident, relaxed, and engaging character, and that is what women find attractive as hell. And not only that, when you are only focused on the present and confident enough that outcome will favor you, you let go of things that happen naturally, which creates spontaneity and excitement. So if you want to be the attraction magnet, just let the chips fall where they may, and you will be surprised by the results.
#4. Create an Instant Connection
When you meet someone new or a girl from an online dating app, there is a period of awkwardness as you both are trying to figure out how to break the ice. But if you can create an instant connection and give her feel like at-home vibes, you kind of create a sense of familiarity with her, and that comes from the weird confidence that most men don’t possess. You can create an instant connection by assuming rapport with a girl. When you do that, you act in a way that makes her feel like you already know her from somewhere in your neighborhood. But to do this, you will need massive confidence. Understand it, when you talk confidently, you create a sense of intimacy with her, and she instantly becomes attracted to that. You can also create an instant connection by being clever enough to find common ground with her. This can be anything, a shared interest, love for cute puppies, or even a mutual acquaintance will do the magic. Creating an instant connection is a powerful tool that you can use in many settings to become the center of attraction.
#5. Show Cool Vulnerability
We all know that confidence is attractive, but vulnerability can also be just as alluring. How? It’s true; girls are attracted to confident men, but they also want to know that these men are real because as a human, no one is perfect. Confident men also have fears and weaknesses, and when you show vulnerability but also be cool about it, she will understand that you are not insecure about your flaws. Instead, you are comfortable about being yourself. There is a difference between showing vulnerability and showing cool vulnerability. Vulnerability is when you are reluctant to show your faults, reluctant to show them because you think it will embarrass you in front of her. On the other hand, showing cool vulnerability is totally different. You are showing your vulnerable side and being confident about it. There is a sweet psychology behind it. By sharing your thoughts and emotions in this area, you invite her to do the same, and you create a sense of intimacy and closeness with her. Once you make her share her emotions, you attract her in a way that she can’t resist you.
To be attractive and irresistible to women is not easy, but by following these weird confident secrets, you can achieve it in no time. Remember, confidence is the key.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, being confident is not just about being good-looking or having a certain set of skills. It’s about having a mindset that radiates positivity, assurance, and self-assurance. By being unapologetic and shameless, you show that you are comfortable in your own skin and confident in your own abilities. By controlling the energy, you create a fun and enjoyable atmosphere that draws people towards you. By letting go of expectations, you free yourself from anxiety and tension and allow yourself to be fully present in the moment. By creating an instant connection, you create a sense of familiarity and comfort that allows you to connect with people on a deeper level. And by showing cool vulnerability, you show that you are human and relatable, and that in turn, makes you more attractive and desirable.
So, if you want to attract women like a magnet, start by building your confidence. Be comfortable in your own skin, take charge of the situation, let go of your expectations, create an instant connection, and show cool vulnerability. By doing so, you will become an irresistibly attractive person that women can’t help but be drawn towards. Remember, confidence is the key, and with these weird confident secrets, you can achieve it in no time.
